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From Shadow to Light: A Reclamation Story

  • Writer: Nancy Dinsmore
    Nancy Dinsmore
  • Dec 15, 2025
  • 2 min read

Choosing to be seen takes a special kind of courage. Quiet, but powerful.


This Iridescence session was rooted in reclamation—the slow, intentional process of taking yourself back. Not through grand gestures or dramatic reveals, but through presence, breath, and a willingness to soften, even just a little bit.


woman pulling off bandages that cover her mouth and eyes

When she arrived, there was a gentle nervousness in the air. Not resistance—just the kind of hesitation that comes from stepping into something unfamiliar. She showed up open, honest, and willing, even before she fully knew what that willingness would ask of her. That alone mattered.


Vulnerability as a Starting Point


Reclamation begins with consent. Not confidence or bravado. A affirmation that you are choosing vulnerability.


From the start, she allowed herself to be vulnerable in powerful ways - symbolically portraying a traumatic moment that I could tell brought up some big feelings. So we stopped, I stepped back, and let her ground herself in a way I knew worked for her. It only took a moment, but the takeaway was this: her pain wasn’t something she performed; it was something we honored.


The Shift: From Guarded to Grounded


As the session unfolded, I saw her soften. The tension in her body began to release, her excitement about the project was shining through. And then she laughed.

blurred image of a person in partial light with the stems of a plant in the foreground

Real, spontaneous laughter at something I said that cracked the seriousness wide open. By the time we reached the later part of the session, she wasn’t just being photographed, she was playful and fully present. I could tell she was having fun, and more importantly, she could feel it too.


Telling the Story Through Space


We began in darker settings—quieter, more contained, with room for reflection. These images held the heavier pieces: complexity, uncertainty, and the parts of ourselves that need time and patience, not fixing.


From there, we gradually shifted.


As we moved through each space, the images became lighter, and she grew more confident; more open. Not because the earlier moments disappeared, but because they made room for what came next. The story didn’t jump from darkness to joy; it moved there on its own, at her pace.


By the final setting, the light wasn’t just around her—it was her.


woman standing on a railing in the dark, shooting lightning from her hands

What Reclamation Can Look Like


This is what reclamation often looks like in an Iridescence session:

  • Showing up unsure, but willing

  • Letting yourself be guided by the process

  • Moving at the pace your body sets

  • Allowing joy to arrive when it’s ready


It’s not about erasing the shadows. It’s about integrating them, and choosing to step forward anyway.


Every session tells a different story. This one was a reminder that reclamation doesn’t ask for perfection, performance, or bravery on demand. It only asks for presence. For patience, and the willingness to stay with yourself long enough to feel what’s real.


When that happens—when you stop pushing and start listening—something shifts. Not all at once, and not without tenderness.


The light always finds its way in.

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